havnt played the game.. is there a TLDR version of what i shoudl know/do/start?

i feel like i get such an advantage starting early, yet im so far behind since i know NOTHIGN about the game..

Find a guild quickly and hope they are organized, this isnt a game that supports solo play well.

damn really? why not.. what can a guild offer me that i cant do alone? if i do play alone how gimped am i?

i only have 2-3 hours a day to play, trying to find people randomly to play with at those times will be an inconvenience

Game is super grindy and anything you want done is going to require a lot of time played. SO unless you want to be gimped join a guild that is willing to help out or atleast have a group of friends willing to play @ same time. Resources will be hard to acquire at first due to restricting labor ( labor points restrict you from doing too much crafting / gathering and you gain them overtime while logged in if F2P or also offline if patron [P2P] ). If you have 2-3 hours a day you probably wont get much done in any of the crafting aspects of the game unless you just treat it like farmville.