i finally found the perfect setting for gta4 on my computer
specs: 3 GB ram ( factory )
DUAL CORE @ 2.20 GHz 32-bit
Pny GeForce 210 ( 512 mb )
Command line settings: ( for optimized multi-player not single player )
-norestriction
-nomemrestrict
-availablevidmem "1.2"
-percentvidmem "100"
-forcehighqualitymirrors
-notimefix
-novblank
-noprecache
-framelimit 30
-novblank
-noprecache
-noswapdelay
-shadowdensity 0
-viewdistance 25
-detailquality 50
-shadowquality 3
-reflectionquality 4
-reflectionresolution 2048
-shadowresolution 2048
-waterquality 0
-waterreflectionquality 5
-minspecaudio
-dx10
In game setting: 1024 x 768 (75Hz)
auto
Medium
Low
Low
Off
Vd: 21
Dd: 51
vD: 25
Sh: 0
On
On
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