These days mmorpg always try to cater to wide audience and focus on graphics instead of reals skillings, balanced classes, or end game content. Try nodiatis
You won't get awesome graphics, you won't get an easy game(it's hard as hell in the beginning) you will probably quit a few times. But somehow if you are looking for that old school hardcore niche game that is deeper than all your currents like wow, lotro or rift, and a small dedicated community where there is so much trust between seasoned players that lending items is common practice, then try nodiatis.