Quote (findix @ 23 Apr 2014 14:40)
lol you know eveeerything about mmorpgs dont you
sorry to say, but s/he's right. you don't wanna level by killing mobs or doing quests? sounds like you'd be more into a RTS than a mmorpg seeing as all you do in mmorpgs is do quests and kill mobs. I assume you meant to say you dont want another WoW knock off type of thing right?
As for RTS, i'd suggest Stronghold Kingdoms, although alot of people on that game take it a bit to serious lol.
If you wanna try a shooter with real life aspects, i suggest playing Nether, or DayZ. Both of them are perma-death games, pretty challenging as well.
As for a mmorpg where u dont really have to grind much, i'd suggest Star Wars The Old Republic, you dont HAVE to do quests, or grind, really you can level up from pvp level 10-55. i personally love the story lines in this game, far better than most.
EVE, all you do is kill mobs, and craft sadly. You could always pay to win i guess

but after you buy the best ships, whats their to do? it gets boring reeeally fast, i'd suggest stay away from that one

Good luck!