Hey, wasn't quite sure where to post this (rpg or mmorpg) so I'd figure i'd post both places

So, my friend and I are looking for a new rpg to play. Must be at least 2 player, online can be via a mod, online, LAN, etc.

Looking for all and any suggestions, would be really appreciated

Requirements;
*Optional
F2P/Buyable RPG in stores.
Not focused on PVP
We have pretty good computers, so that is not an issue.
Least amount should be 2 players, but all of us together equal about 7.
*Hopefully good combat, somewhat akin to Mount and Blade? or an RPGFPS
Difficult, like not just a click-fest, want some fore-thought or some strategy
*Teamplay, so like a healer/tank/dps.
Long.

Try DDO...
Up to 6 in a party, 12 in a raid
Can duo most things, PvP isn't really a deal in there, only in Pvp Areas (Taverns)
Combat system is good, you can't AFK kill though, which is good in most cases.
It does take FOREVER to cap your level, and it's that simple for beginners
It is free, but you can buy quest packs from the DDO store.