Quote (SharpSticks @ Jul 25 2013 06:29am)
Going to see my Dad tomorrow, he has been in hospital the last week. It's weird he has a lot of pride, like hasn't wanted any visitors in the hospital, I wanted to go over but I like to respect his wishes.... mum said he didn't want anyone to see him in hospital.
He's finally home, and I was meant to go on holiday with them this weekend... he txted me finally today after 2 weeks, asking if I was coming home this weekend (not where we were going on holiday, home as in my home town).... man it's so weird. I've never had a strong relationship with my father but just things like that remind me he needs his kids and I need him.
We've only got on well since like I've left school and grown up, I can kinda see how we're the same though.... anyways that's my fucking whatever.
Please spend as much time as you can with him. I lost my father a few years ago after just restarting to have a good relationship with him. We lost contact for years and has just got back in touch and he passed. Cherish every moment you can, you really never know when someone will leave you. Just understand, everyone you care about and love can and will leave you one day. There's nothing you can do except spend as much time as you can with those you love. God Bless.