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Dec 11 2012 09:36pm
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Quote (Randolph @ Dec 11 2012 07:31pm)
I cried and was sad when we found out early this morning at the hospital and that's all I needed.  Concern shifted from the loss to taking care of the one person on this Earth I'd die for if it put a smile on her face (that's a fucked up uhhh analogy [?] but you get the point).


I see. Be there for her.

Even if she might say she doesn't want to be near you.

Tell her encouraging words and words of affirmation constantly and frequently.
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Dec 11 2012 09:47pm
this happened to me and my wife 2 times

im sorry for your loss bud

it hurts more than words can explain trust me i know..
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Dec 11 2012 09:47pm
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I see. Be there for her.

Even if she might say she doesn't want to be near you.

Tell her encouraging words and words of affirmation constantly and frequently.


Just the opposite, she's been extra lovey dovey all day, while crying, but still just all over me which is great, whatever she needs of course. She just went to hop in the shower, I'm going to go jump in with her (not for what you're all thinking......pervs lol), just to be with her.

Back in a few, maybe.
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Dec 11 2012 09:48pm
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Just the opposite, she's been extra lovey dovey all day, while crying, but still just all over me which is great, whatever she needs of course.  She just went to hop in the shower, I'm going to go jump in with her (not for what you're all thinking......pervs lol), just to be with her.

Back in a few, maybe.


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Just the opposite, she's been extra lovey dovey all day, while crying, but still just all over me which is great, whatever she needs of course.  She just went to hop in the shower, I'm going to go jump in with her (not for what you're all thinking......pervs lol), just to be with her.

Back in a few, maybe.


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Dec 11 2012 09:59pm
Quote (Randolph @ Dec 11 2012 07:47pm)
Just the opposite, she's been extra lovey dovey all day, while crying, but still just all over me which is great, whatever she needs of course.  She just went to hop in the shower, I'm going to go jump in with her (not for what you're all thinking......pervs lol), just to be with her.

Back in a few, maybe.


That's good. I've know a couple who had similar thing happen and they were never the same.

It was truly sad because they were such a lovely couple prior.
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Dec 11 2012 10:13pm
Quote (Slowtoanger @ Dec 11 2012 07:59pm)
That's good. I've know a couple who had similar thing happen and they were never the same.

It was truly sad because they were such a lovely couple prior.


the situation becomes what you make of it. They can choose to become closer or allow it to tear them apart.

Good luck Randy and I hope the best for you both.
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Dec 11 2012 10:19pm
Sooo.. What happened?
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