Dunno what is reality with what you post - but if this is true I am truly sorry for your loss man.

PM Rowdy - he's gone through this as you know

This post was edited by Honestly on Dec 11 2012 07:15pm

this 1000%

i wouldn't even know where to begin to think of what to do in your situation. god willing you two will come out of this much stronger

If you ever have sleepless nights, I can offer my open PM box during the next 30-40 days as I'm just starting my day as people are going to bed, but soon I'll be back on America time and I won't be awake at all hours of the morning lol.

No idea what to say. I could never imagine losing a kid. Really sorry for you and Ape.

My wife had 2 before we had our first kid together. Like someone else said earlier; it's fairly common albeit how emotional it is to deal with one. I hope the best for you guys when you try again and I hope you guys recover from this tragic event and get stronger for having been through it.

First off, fuck you. Second, Jeff already pmed me.

To everyone else, thank you, it's very appreciated.

Like I just told Jeff though, I don't want to say I'm over it because that's not true at all, but idk how to explain it. It's kind of how I've always been. I just deal with it and move on. My main concern is Ape, not myself. I'm not repressing my own emotions at all, I just get sick of being upset and sad and stop to focus on her. She's doing well with everyone here and her friends and mom are going to stay the night so that's good because I have to go to work tomorrow morning.

Ah, you got them military feels. It happened, nothing you can do, so instead of dwelling and being upset about it, you just move on but you never forget about what happened.

It's how I am, and my gf gets mad at me all the time, and I just can't explain it...I'm basically your twin Randy...Seperated at birth.

I guess that's a good way of describing it, just never been in the military before.

I was the same way with my wife. The miscarriages were definitely upsetting to me but what bothered me the most is how traumatized she was given that she was the one carrying. I know exactly what you mean when you say you're not over it but you just take it in and fight on because I was the same way. My main concern was to take care of my wife and help her get over it. It seemed to have a longer effect on her than it did me. You guys will get through it and before you know it, you guys will be blessed with another pregnancy. Just get some rest and encourage her to do the same. Take her out somewhere tomorrow, possibly to a hot tub or something and just relax with her. Anyways, I'm about to get off. G'night buzzin.

Well, you don't get it from the military etc, there are still lots of bitches and complainers here, but it's how I've always been even when I was 13 and got grounded for no reason, I was just like 'Whatever.'