He is taking it as well as should be expected. Good for you if you can be a bastion when death strikes someone close to you, but most of us aren't ready for it.

This post was edited by Cantfitedathielen on Dec 5 2018 04:44pm

I'm sorry to hear about your mom.

If you actually are working 60 hours a week to make ends meet, why on earth are you spending your free time quoting your other account on jsp instead of trying to develop yourself?

He’s handling it horribly and takin out his frustrations the wrong way but you’re still a terrible person for saying this.

First off, I'm the third best troll in this section. Secondly I wasn't trolling.

You aren’t the best at anything sadly a B list poster if I’ve ever seen one.

I know... I said third best. You being 1 and Terps being 2. Or vise versa

I'll be real for a second and give some sincere advice: consider seeing a therapist. It sounds like you're going through a lot, and in my own unprofessional opinion, it seems like you're suffering from some kind of mental illness. A therapist can diagnose and help you work through whatever you're going through. I know there's this stigma about men needing therapy, but it's honestly all bullshit: there isn't a person alive who can't benefit from talking about whatever it is they're thinking. My mom went off a mental cliff after her brother died. Therapy helped her a lot. I've seen it work.

If you can't afford a therapist (due to insurance or whatever), then consider talking to someone, anyone, even a complete stranger (which carries its own benefits, yet also some obvious limitations). Maybe ( https://www.reddit.com/r/self/ ) or ( https://www.reddit.com/r/depression/ ). Merely writing out all your problems there can be therapeutic just on its own.

If you go around being negative all of the time and putting people down, then you're just going to get treated the same way per the Golden Rule: treat people the way you want to be treated.

.. gay...

I've seriously thought about it for years but can't really afford to. Besides my wife who already goes through enough, don't really have anyone like that. Not really close to my family anymore, I pretty much am either sleeping or at work to keep myself busy.

I'll be the first to say not trying to make excuses for the way I act, I know better than anyone here how much of an asshole I am. It's just how I cope or some shit, who knows. Would I like that to change? Absolutely. Will it happen? Probably not.