I'm sorry Randy...but it's not at all what anyone wants to hear right now, but miscarriages are actually fairly common for 1st time pregnancies and for others as well. My Aunt had my 2 cousins, and the 3rd was miscarried, and now they have the 4th.
It's really shitty that it happens, but..hey, you can always try again after you guys are ready.

Seriously sorry for your loss though bud.