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May 20 2025 12:35pm
Sounds like you and he are just mad about encouraging someone not to turn back to the bottle

You can live without the crutch of numbing yourself, you’ll be happier and you’ll be processing the grief instead of escaping yourself from it

Take it or leave it


Yea see thats the point youre at some righteous way. Just be there for the guy lol. Telling some guy how to live holy.
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May 20 2025 12:40pm
Dear friend, though the pain of losing your brother is immense, remember that his light still shines in your memories and the love you shared. You are not alone on this journey; we are here to support you and honor his memory together. Each step you take forward is a testament to your strength and his legacy.



Dep and stay strong.

This post was edited by R1P on May 20 2025 12:40pm
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May 20 2025 01:15pm
Yea see thats the point youre at some righteous way. Just be there for the guy lol. Telling some guy how to live holy.


If he didn’t literally say “I’m trying so hard not to relapse on booze” then maybe you’d have a point here. That’s asking for help to battle addiction in a challenging time. Anyway I suspect that it struck a nerve with you because you feel defensive about your habits. Do whatever you want it’s your life, but when someone asks for help it isn’t taking the piss to give advice on the topic
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May 20 2025 07:23pm
I'm so sorry for your loss, man.

Reach out if you need to talk 1 on 1.

Hope you don't relapse - keep it up.
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May 23 2025 02:36pm
just wanted to say thank you to everyone...it hasn't been easy but i know he's not in pain anymore.
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May 23 2025 05:45pm
my youngest brother killed himself on mothers day around 9am...he was 23 years old.

im trying so hard not to relapse on booze but its fucking hard...
wish i would have been a better older brother, i tried to be the father figure but obviously i failed...

/endrant


Last year my father commit suicide, he jumps into the river
I live in the other side of the state, without time to find him after my mom send me his letter, it was so sad to know by the fisherman who find he body on the river, I was driving when the fisherman called me in cell phone

The hard thing after the suicide, is still working, cause I was depressed and I work with gun, so it was fucking hard.

Sorry about my english, I just want to say to u this.. it will never pass, cause you love him so much!
A lost for suicide is a different felling, very different from a natural death etc, it wil try to fuck u up BUT If you can still stand up after a loved person commit suicide, damn it will make you strong as a rock, with time you gonna learn how to Live with this and keep going, reaching all your dreams with your brother on your mind.

No much words to say right now, don't give up and keep going
MY condolences for your family loss

This post was edited by halloweenbr on May 23 2025 05:46pm
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May 25 2025 10:54am
just wanted to say thank you to everyone...it hasn't been easy but i know he's not in pain anymore.


Sorry for your loss man. It'll hit in waves as time goes on, but dont hesitate to talk to someone if you feel the need.
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May 26 2025 05:20pm
Hey bud. First and foremost I'm so sorry for the loss you and your family are enduring. There is nothing that I could imagine that could be worse than losing a loved one, especially in that sort of way.

Please keep in mind though, that you truly are not responsible in any way, shape, form, even fractionally. It's natural to think about the things you could have done differently, no doubt, but it's not fair to place the blame on yourself, when the reality is there is probably not blame to throw around.

I've dealt with MDD my entire life, I've had suicidal thoughts nearly every day since I was 13. I'm very familiar with this kind of thing so if you need to talk to someone to let it out, please don't hesitate to reach out to me.

I don't know why he chose to do that, but I know for a fact it is not your fault.

Love ya bud, hit me up if you need to


damn Flopps got srs O.O
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May 26 2025 08:37pm
Something uplifting for yall

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May 28 2025 06:03pm
Sorry to hear this bro
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