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Mar 3 2015 05:33pm
Quote (Nerlens @ Mar 3 2015 04:16pm)
im 22 and i dont know what i want to do with my life

i go chasing for girls and shit never seems to work out

life is a struggle


stop chasing and let them come to you. no need to get really serious if you still have to sort your own shit out. just make fuckbuddies with girls that you hang out with regularly. and don't give me that Friend Zone bullshit. a lot of people frown upon dipping in the company ink but it's pretty convenient sometimes depending on when you work.

and as far as what you want to do... aren't you about to graduate? i feel you should at least have a fair idea of what you want to do by now. Plans can always change as you get closer to graduation. i was really retarded and changed my concentration 3 times RIP
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Mar 3 2015 05:48pm
Quote (Nerlens @ Mar 4 2015 07:46am)
wat


i think he called you an orc, bro.
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Mar 3 2015 05:49pm
Quote (Cheesehead @ Mar 3 2015 07:33pm)
stop chasing and let them come to you. no need to get really serious if you still have to sort your own shit out. just make fuckbuddies with girls that you hang out with regularly. and don't give me that Friend Zone bullshit. a lot of people frown upon dipping in the company ink but it's pretty convenient sometimes depending on when you work.

and as far as what you want to do... aren't you about to graduate? i feel you should at least have a fair idea of what you want to do by now. Plans can always change as you get closer to graduation. i was really retarded and changed my concentration 3 times RIP


That's what I usually do. I never approach girls since I usually get approached first. The problem is it seems like some of these girls are just leading me on and when im ready for something real, they just wanna play games.
I finished off a terrible relationship couple months ago and I been trying to rebound. Found someone who is significantly older than me who has shown real interest but once she found out I was 22 she was like nah i guess

As for my career, I switched around couple times. Not really close to graduation because I been fucking around. I went to UMD my freshmen year for my first semester but my family had some financial and legal issues so I had to drop out. Went to community college for two years and got my associates and then worked for a year to make some cash. Decided that I wanted to do something in the health field so I'm currently in a health field program (my first year) and I'm finding out I really don't have passion or interest for it.
The pay would be decent once I graduate but its not something I enjoy doing. Actually I despise it. It's annoying because I keep comparing myself with friends who most of them are gonna graduate this semester and lot of them have job lined up.
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Mar 3 2015 05:56pm
Quote (Nerlens @ Mar 3 2015 05:49pm)
That's what I usually do. I never approach girls since I usually get approached first. The problem is it seems like some of these girls are just leading me on and when im ready for something real, they just wanna play games.
I finished off a terrible relationship couple months ago and I been trying to rebound. Found someone who is significantly older than me who has shown real interest but once she found out I was 22 she was like nah i guess

As for my career, I switched around couple times. Not really close to graduation because I been fucking around. I went to UMD my freshmen year for my first semester but my family had some financial and legal issues so I had to drop out. Went to community college for two years and got my associates and then worked for a year to make some cash. Decided that I wanted to do something in the health field so I'm currently in a health field program (my first year) and I'm finding out I really don't have passion or interest for it.
The pay would be decent once I graduate but its not something I enjoy doing. Actually I despise it. It's annoying because I keep comparing myself with friends who most of them are gonna graduate this semester and lot of them have job lined up.


I wouldn't let it get to you. We all live at different paces, really. I had to pay my way thru school and fell into my own legal troubles which kept me from graduating for quite a while. Switching concentrations over and over also didn't help. In the end, I got a degree in something I enjoy doing, but the job market is inundated and since I worked full-time to pay for school, my resume doesn't have much on it warranting attention. My personality and interview skills are great but I just don't have any experience. Shit happens. Make the best of what you got and control what you can. Money is great but if you can't see yourself getting up every morning for it, I personally wouldn't pursue it. Sucks that you have to keep searching to find what you like, but better that than never imo.

As for women, I'd keep most things casual since women your age tend to just like dick and having fun in general. Get laid but don't preoccupy yourself with the other gender until you get your own shit figured out tbh. I'm in a somewhat similar position and I've made it known that I'm just hanging out with them bc I like to drink and vaginas feel nice.
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Mar 3 2015 06:03pm
Quote (Cheesehead @ Mar 3 2015 07:56pm)
I wouldn't let it get to you. We all live at different paces, really. I had to pay my way thru school and fell into my own legal troubles which kept me from graduating for quite a while. Switching concentrations over and over also didn't help. In the end, I got a degree in something I enjoy doing, but the job market is inundated and since I worked full-time to pay for school, my resume doesn't have much on it warranting attention. My personality and interview skills are great but I just don't have any experience. Shit happens. Make the best of what you got and control what you can. Money is great but if you can't see yourself getting up every morning for it, I personally wouldn't pursue it. Sucks that you have to keep searching to find what you like, but better that than never imo.

As for women, I'd keep most things casual since women your age tend to just like dick and having fun in general. Get laid but don't preoccupy yourself with the other gender until you get your own shit figured out tbh. I'm in a somewhat similar position and I've made it known that I'm just hanging out with them bc I like to drink and vaginas feel nice.


yeah money is good and all but if you hate what you are doing for living, not sure if that is the way to go.
Its annoying because I recently quit my part time job to focus on studying but I hate what im studying because it has no interest. I'm back living with my mother since I need support but I can't stand living with my family.

im 22 but i still feel like im 18. I constantly think about the past and think what i did this or what if i did that.

As for girl problem, Im trying to move on from it. I usually initiate texts and shit with her but shes been distant since she found out I was like 7 years younger than her. I don't blame her, she's at a age where she should be looking for husband.
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Mar 3 2015 06:08pm
Quote (Nerlens @ Mar 3 2015 06:03pm)
yeah money is good and all but if you hate what you are doing for living, not sure if that is the way to go.
Its annoying because I recently quit my part time job to focus on studying but I hate what im studying because it has no interest. I'm back living with my mother since I need support but I can't stand living with my family.

im 22 but i still feel like im 18. I constantly think about the past and think what i did this or what if i did that.

As for girl problem, Im trying to move on from it. I usually initiate texts and shit with her but shes been distant since she found out I was like 7 years younger than her. I don't blame her, she's at a age where she should be looking for husband.


That was my point. Money will come in time, so find what you enjoy doing and stick with it. I have plenty of regrets on how I handled a lot of things but dwelling on them doesn't really help anything. Learn from it and control what you can now. Not much else you can do. If you have a decent amount of cash saved up, I'd try finding a roommate or two and moving out if it's really that bad. Luckily my job kept me working 50-60 hours so I never really saw my family enough to really get irritated with them.

Improve yourself and your trajectory. Even if it means less/no d2jsp :(

Seriously... this website is a fucking blight on my life and I can't stop
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Mar 3 2015 06:16pm
im considering swapping my amd mobo/cpu for an i5 mobo/cpu

wish i would have never been cheap with this build, there was no reason for it in the first place lol. May just sell the whole thing for like 700-800 and build a new one lol.
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Mar 3 2015 06:16pm
Quote (Cheesehead @ Mar 3 2015 08:08pm)
That was my point. Money will come in time, so find what you enjoy doing and stick with it. I have plenty of regrets on how I handled a lot of things but dwelling on them doesn't really help anything. Learn from it and control what you can now. Not much else you can do. If you have a decent amount of cash saved up, I'd try finding a roommate or two and moving out if it's really that bad. Luckily my job kept me working 50-60 hours so I never really saw my family enough to really get irritated with them.

Improve yourself and your trajectory. Even if it means less/no d2jsp :(

Seriously... this website is a fucking blight on my life and I can't stop


I stopped using FB but i cant quit jsp lmao
And I only have around 3k saved up which isn't shit. Good thing about living with my family is that I don't have to pay shit.
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Mar 3 2015 06:36pm
Quote (Diggins @ Mar 3 2015 07:16pm)
im considering swapping my amd mobo/cpu for an i5 mobo/cpu

wish i would have never been cheap with this build, there was no reason for it in the first place lol. May just sell the whole thing for like 700-800 and build a new one lol.


What processor is it? I doubt you'd get 700 for the build used honestly.
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Mar 3 2015 06:40pm
lol @ nerlens

you're 22, why tf you stressing over women

theres only one girl i was broken up about, and then she got married within a year, to a dude with a LOT more money than me

*wipes sweat off brow*
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