It's already been fucked for about a month now. To be a surrogate they pump you full of drugs and a bunch of estrogen. I guess normal levels are around 40, and we found out the other night that she's been sitting at about 2k lol. She's been all over the fucking place lately, so at least she's got a legit excuse for being extra crazy womany lately.

Lol I'm a nice person, not no punk. :F

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Good luck. Me and my wife have been trying for awhile with no luck, might need to see something like that ourselves.

I would talk to a physician if you've been trying for 2+ months without any luck. Could be a swimmer problem or something on her end, it's just better to find out what the issue is. It can almost always be resolved with something more simple than surrogacy, but it's something I'd want to know if I was you.

This post was edited by jadeoshbogosh on Apr 27 2016 12:16pm

Yeah, we finally got insurance but they don't cover anything fertility go figure...she's on Metformin atm because of her blood pressure/sugar and supposed to make her more fertile but who knows. More than likely on me.

If you do go the surrogate route, through an agency you're probably looking at around 50k+ in expenses. If you do a non-agency surrogate, you'd still most likely be looking at anywhere from 25k-30k. Most of the time you provide insurance coverage, food/clothing necessities for the time of pregnancy, a monthly payment, bonuses at transfer/birth and this is without even getting into the legal fees for hiring an attorney to do a contract or anything. The wife and I made our own contract the first time we did it without an agency and it turned out fine, if you need a template or anything lmk and I'd be more than happy to help with w/e I can.

Should be relatively cheap for you to get your sperm count checked, I'd look into that.

That sounds crazy, if anything we'll just end up adopting. Will definitely get checked though.