Quote (dxlightning @ Jan 7 2014 06:16am)
I don't have first hand experience. But as a general rule I think it's naive to assume my preferences are the only correct ones. Monogamy is a preference.
If everyone in the situation knows what they're getting into and is honest with one another I don't see a problem. But I imagine there needs to be a certain level of trust which isn't inconceivable.
Quote (KoJ @ Jan 7 2014 09:34am)
i personally dont have any issues against it and im not going to judge it, but playing it off like its a "quasi normal" situation is kinda ass backwards in my opinion. I would think you have to treat it a different way and nurture it way more than your "typical" relationship.
it can be done (i assume) and has been done (once again assuming) and who are you to tell some one else how to live their life?
thats not something that i, or my fiance are interested in personally, so its a moot point.
If you want to be happy, be.
I'm not telling anyone how to live lol, I don't care what he does. DX also said I'm just "imposing my beliefs". I'm just stating my opinion, just like everyone else.
I'm not denying that I'm judging, though, 'cause I am. I would also judge someone if they made, for example, offensive racist comments. I don't feel that it's unfair to judge when I think someone is being immoral and dishonest, and I'm sure I'm not the only one who does it.
He can do whatever he wants and it doesn't bother me but I'm not going to feel bad about thinking (or knowing) it's wrong.