Quote (LuLer @ May 24 2017 12:12pm)
I used to be a little uptight on this subject but then I kind of realized that guys and girls just really like having sex, a lot... as much as possible, and it's a much smaller deal than I thought it was.
As long as it's not rape or cheating, whatever.
I agree with this sentiment 100%.
Quote (Nearin @ May 24 2017 01:02pm)
IMO if they both just wanted to do it no harm no foul, if she was too intoxicated beat his ass, like you would anyone who takes advantage of your intoxicated sister.
If he didnt treat her well in some way beat his ass, preg, beat his ass, STI, beat his ass etc.
but assuming they both wanted it and were decent about it not your business to be honest.
he should have asked for your blessing though
I didnt ask my sister about it point blank, but I asked her about the weekend and she said she had fun and didnt say anything so I assume all is good.
The main reasons I had issue with it was because she was really intoxicated (he was also drunk), the age differential and him being a close friend. Earlier I felt like he had taken advantage of a situation and he should have been smarter and avoided it.
But from what we've discussed here I think I'm over it. I think I kinda just got myself all worked up in my own head, and discussing it really helped
