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#5571
Aug 27 2013 08:21pm
Quote (partank @ Aug 27 2013 10:13pm)
id run it by that dude first. literally have the same situation except my buddys sis is still in school so i stay away atm

Quote (Caedus @ Aug 27 2013 10:17pm)
We don't live in the Middle Ages or Muslim parts of the world. If you're an adult, there's no reason why you can't go after your friends sister without permission. I'd argue there's no reason, ever.


There are two worries:

1.) He doesn't like the idea of me dating his sister
2.) He doesn't like the idea of his sister dating me

Both culminate in the idea that if something goes wrong, it might mess up our friendship.
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#5572
Aug 27 2013 08:26pm
Quote (partank @ Aug 27 2013 08:13pm)
id run it by that dude first. literally have the same situation except my buddys sis is still in school so i stay away atm


This sounds so pedo

but ya, id talk to your buddy. Friendship can last a lifetime, while divorce rate is above 50%
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#5573
Aug 27 2013 08:27pm
Quote (Subzer0isGG @ Aug 27 2013 10:26pm)
This sounds so pedo

but ya, id talk to your buddy. Friendship can last a lifetime, while divorce rate is above 50%


lol

school as in when youre in university you want zero commitment
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#5574
Aug 27 2013 08:29pm
Quote (Subzer0isGG @ Aug 27 2013 10:26pm)
This sounds so pedo

but ya, id talk to your buddy. Friendship can last a lifetime, while divorce rate is above 50%


Divorce rate is over 50% because of stupid motherfuckers. I'd say it's much lower among people who know what they're doing.
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#5575
Aug 27 2013 08:57pm
Quote (dxlightning @ Aug 27 2013 05:25pm)
We need chojo. We call chojo. Chojo could WRECK some people.


Of course, he one of my favorites

Quote (dxlightning @ Aug 27 2013 07:21pm)
There are two worries:

1.) He doesn't like the idea of me dating his sister
2.) He doesn't like the idea of his sister dating me

Both culminate in the idea that if something goes wrong, it might mess up our friendship.


Well it's not his decision, if she wants to date you and you want to date her, then do it, don't let others dictate your life, if things don't work he shouldn't hold that against you unless you fucked up, but I have the sence that you are a genuine/good guy.
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Aug 27 2013 08:58pm
Quote (KoJ @ Aug 27 2013 10:57pm)
Of course, he one of my favorites



Well it's not his decision, if she wants to date you and you want to date her, then do it, don't let others dictate your life, if things don't work he shouldn't hold that against you unless you fucked up, but I have the sence that you are a genuine/good guy.


Except the problem is, when weighing risks and benefits, my mom is best friends with her mom and I am best friends with her brother. If that gets fucked up, it's horrible. I've already screwed up one of those in my lifetime and I'm not sure I wanna do it again.
Plus we're already at a disadvantage cuz we're like 900 miles apart. I guess my big worry is that we will break up and my friend will be put in a position of choosing between me and her. And honestly, the way she talks, she thinks it'll be me.

Anyway fuck it, I need to sleep.

This post was edited by dxlightning on Aug 27 2013 09:02pm
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#5577
Aug 27 2013 09:28pm
Id be mad. I already told my friend who tried to date my sister, NO.

I feel extremely uncomfortable. Obviously you're doing it for yourself, not the brother.
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Aug 27 2013 09:55pm
Quote (dxlightning @ Aug 27 2013 10:21pm)
There are two worries:

1.) He doesn't like the idea of me dating his sister
2.) He doesn't like the idea of his sister dating me

Both culminate in the idea that if something goes wrong, it might mess up our friendship.


At some point, your friend has to realize it's not his choice.

Quote (dirTyMan @ Aug 27 2013 11:28pm)
Id be mad. I already told my friend who tried to date my sister, NO.

I feel extremely uncomfortable. Obviously you're doing it for yourself, not the brother.


I don't want my sister dating anybody, period, but that doesn't mean I'd ruin a friendship over it. I'd get over it if it was a good friend. I'd ruin (And I have!) a strangers nose over it though, but that's about it.
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Aug 27 2013 10:03pm
Quote (Caedus @ Aug 27 2013 08:55pm)
At some point, your friend has to realize it's not his choice.



I don't want my sister dating anybody, period, but that doesn't mean I'd ruin a friendship over it. I'd get over it if it was a good friend. I'd ruin (And I have!) a strangers nose over it though, but that's about it.


Na , im still great friends with my friend.
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#5580
Aug 27 2013 10:34pm
Quote (dxlightning @ Aug 27 2013 08:58pm)
Except the problem is, when weighing risks and benefits, my mom is best friends with her mom and I am best friends with her brother. If that gets fucked up, it's horrible. I've already screwed up one of those in my lifetime and I'm not sure I wanna do it again.
Plus we're already at a disadvantage cuz we're like 900 miles apart. I guess my big worry is that we will break up and my friend will be put in a position of choosing between me and her. And honestly, the way she talks, she thinks it'll be me.

Anyway fuck it, I need to sleep.


sounds like you've made up your mind. fap to her one more time then leave it alone.
long distance sucks too..i work out of town sometimes and its killer.
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