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May 4 2016 12:19pm
Quote (dirTyMan @ 4 May 2016 20:08)
How can you ever learn if you blame failure on external factors?

The best hockey players don't say "oh I didn't get that puck because so and so is faster" they think " I gotta work harder, hire a speed skating coach and become faster "


I never said anything about learning, and there's a difference between global and local attributions, both positive and negative. Global negative being in your example something like "I didn't get the puck, I'm worthless". Local negative being more focused on the specifics, like "I didn't get the puck, I need to work on my skating". Yet another thing is whether the attribution is static or dynamic, i.e. do you think can you change it or not, which already has a lot to do with learning. Sorry for the sort of incomprehensible post, but I guess the main point is that don't blame everything on yourself and take a lot of credit for your successes if you want to maintain a positive self-image. Also it's a good idea to be willing to see your obvious shortcomings as a lack of skills you don't yet possess but are able to achieve instead of seeing yourself as a failure.

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Got another guy in my position last week assigned to the same project. Splitting the workload up slowly. Already a lot less stressed doing this but the long ass hours are there still.

Worried that I get assigned to a different project though. That happens and I will not be impressed.
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Got another guy in my position last week assigned to the same project. Splitting the workload up slowly. Already a lot less stressed doing this but the long ass hours are there still.

Worried that I get assigned to a different project though. That happens and I will not be impressed.


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100k mother ducker
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May 4 2016 06:24pm
just learned my dad's cousin just lost their home in Fort McMurray

that sucks
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just learned my dad's cousin just lost their home in Fort McMurray

that sucks


shitty

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i got lucky and was able to withdraw like $3.50 in skins before losing the rest from my free $1
you can even sell the skins on steam for $$ towards games if u get anything and dont play cs


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So.
To date. 1600 homes in Fort mcmurray have burnt to the ground.
To put that into perspective, when slave lake caught fire. 374 homes burnt. And cost 700mill
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what version windows?
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