Yeah.. Goalies giving you a 2 hand is typically a reaction to something you did, not a premeditated action unless provoked previously during the game
At the end of the day, no matter what has occured, somebody fucks with your goalie you should be immediately reminding them why that's a very bad idea
idk every goalie ive ever played with does it for fun and mostly for no reason,
sometimes its warranted obvoiusly.
and i agree with your last statement.