Quote (Secksii @ Mar 2 2021 02:12pm)
too much variants to that, for sure if gov didn't allow 2 jobless fuckers on foodstamps to have kids it'll save the kid from having a rough time growing up, but at the same time even the smartest couple with money can fuck up their kids just as bad imo
Agree 100%.
No magic formula to a picturesque childhood.
Furthermore parents can have a strong framework in place but all it takes is a death in the family for things to fall apart. That is beyond anyone's control. People get sick and die all the time at an earlier than expected age.
For myself I may never have children because I do want that strong framework in place beforehand. I am not just going to fool around, get a random girl pregnant then just wing it hoping for the best.
Funny thing is that scenario unfolds all the time. Does not mean that it is always going to be an unmitigated disaster. There is just too many variables as you said.