Sometimes yes haha? I think I get accused of being the "kids get off my damn lawn" individual a lot more. But yes, I'm of the mind that if you're going to be liberal it should be in the market and the bedroom. I've always liked to be different...

Wow really ? Never noticed that.

It's fun you should try.



Everyone wants to fuck someone else. It's not a bad thing. The difference is whether it's deception or part of the fun. I think Tinder would be an awful place to find such a person. Friends are better for that, whether it's your friends or hers.

hey you are allowed to think what ever you think, i just cant get behind the concept though. Sharing is not caring, and if it is, there are some people i just dont care about, and things i dont care to share


She doesn't want it to be one of our friends, Particularly not one of mine, the other night we were at a party and she points out that she thinks one of my friends is really hot so i started trying to flirt with her and warm her up to the proposition, Girlfriend ended up getting upset because i used to be into the girl and she could tell 'we had chemistry'. She since decided she still wants to do it but with a random.

I'm with you though i think tinder will either be very hard to find someone on or they will be a bar slut which is not my thing. I suspect this plan does not come to fruition anytime soon

You know she wants the double stuff, lmk when c'd

I'm all down for 3somes.

If it's with my gf, no way could I handle it being 2 guys. I can take and enjoy a girl all over her but not another guy.

You couldn't even talk to a girl until like last year, V card barely expired

Now you girl master?

This post was edited by Meatstick on Dec 12 2014 05:02pm

That's fine. Most couples aren't really comfortable with the idea. I just think it's human nature for people in a relationship to have the desire to sleep with other people.

Huh, that's weird. Girls usually like to do that with girls they know, at least for the first time...I wouldn't do tinder because it's would be just so awkward for a person you would actually want to do it with. Person from a bar/club maybe but then you're drunk and that's no fun. Strip club maybe? Should be able to find a girl in there (worker or patron...) that would do it. Friends though, definitely, is the best and I think for a lot of girls the only option. What's her reasoning for it not being one of her friends? I understand the it not being one of your friends part, just don't understand it not being one of hers.



Don't knock it till ya try it.

I may be a fuddy duddy, but I'm not into it, I have seen it destroy relationships and marriages and I'm just not interested.

Watching it on porn is one thing but to bring it to a relationship is another thing.


Outside of a relationship idk maybe.

I'm sure it does destroy relationships and marriages. It's takes a particular kind of person, and probably a lot of luck for it to work. Then again, there's people who've been married for 50 years who were in swingers clubs from the 1960s to the 1990s. I think it just takes two people with a particular world view, and it usually ends up being one person or no person with that, but both people trying to be.