Thanks for the input guys, it's really helpful

For PoE, I would lag primarily under 2 circumstances:
1: When I have a video playing on my second monitor. If I was watching a youtube video / movie / stream or anything like that, I would go from fairly fluid gameplay to a much choppier / laggier situation.
2: When I play in groups with just about anyone else. If anyone else is around shooting off their graphically intensive attacks, I would get terrible performance as a direct result. Group play seems borderline unplayable for me. I still do it for in game reasons, but it's terrible.
One other thing is that I'm notorious for leaving open like 10+ Google Chrome tabs at all times, Steam in the background, and usually always has some playlist going etc. I feel like these habits definitely have a noticeably negative impact on my overall performance, so that's something I would hope to improve upon.
As for Process Hacker, that's something I could look into but since I can't start my primary rig right now, it's something I would have to do after I replace my Motherboard, so it's a bit of a shame that I didn't check that out while I still could. Will give it a look later though.
As for right now, I passed on the Asrock Mobo that I linked earlier since no one seemed to recommend it, but now I've got my eyes on a new deal:
https://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?utm_medium=Email&utm_source=IGNEFL010518&cm_mmc=EMC-IGNEFL010518-_-EMC-010518-Index-_-DesktopMemory-_-20215160-S0E&ignorebbr=1&Item=N82E16820215160This is 16GB DDR4 Ram with 3000 speed, this would fit with Ryzen 5 + B350 Mobo type setups right? I'm still mostly considering that sort of three item upgrade I suppose, and this is the cheapest 16GB ddr4 RAM I've seen so far, just checking to see if you guys think it's a solid pickup for the $150.00 pricetag.