acoustic or electric?
it sounds like you're playing acoustic if you're leading for a church?
fingerpicking > the generic camp-fire chord strumming
look up a fingerpicking song on ultimate-guitar and learn it
it'll be overwhelming at first but you'll discover that as long as your fret-hand is in the shape of basic chords, you can fingerpick the separate strings and it'll sound good
This post was edited by rko_evolution on Jul 5 2012 02:39pm