if you buy the acoustic set, which in my opinion is the better way to go, you can buy sound dampeners for your drums. you can get rubber coverings that go over top of the heads, but inside your hoops that will still bounce like the real heads, but just damped the sound of your kit dramatically. you can also buy the same type of thing for all your cymbals (excluding a chinese if you get one) that wrap around the circumference of the circle. easy to put on, easy to take off. also, you can get brushes for the drums. they make a bit of a "swish" sound when you hit the drum, but that should be no problem, and it will be cheaper than the dampeners.
nothing beats the sound of a good acoustic set, no matter what kind of technology you have, or no matter what model of electric kit you have. starting out on an electric kit would be a major mistake. once you can actually play on an acoustic set would be the time to make the change if you wanted to, because the feel is so much more different. the electric drum heads are much smaller, so if you're a beginner, that's a problem. for a pro, no problem, they usually hit the center of the heads anyway. also, another thing to look at it that the electric kits have a very easy way to pull off rimshots while you drum. this is BAD because if you try to pull off the rimshots on an acoustic set the same way you do on the electric, you will fail miserably.
so overall, get the acoustic set, and later in life i suggest the electric. electrics are fun to mess around with and good for a bit of fun, but are really nonpareil to acoustic sets.
edit: typed this reply without looking at whole thread. lol.
This post was edited by Helbinor on Jul 2 2009 02:05pm