Quote (XeroOD @ Mar 31 2011 04:58am)
Punk was the time. Punk kids only hung out with other punk kids at punk shows. They only talked to other punk kids, and their only friends were other punk kids. Finding others similar to you in order to obtain a sense of comradery (sp?) is just what people do. It's stupid and makes no sense to instill or become part of a movement that invokes being unique and rebelling against social norms when no matter what the people all end up being the same as the friends they pick anyways.
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idk about you guys but that's not at all how the West Coast punk scene was gutter punks hung out with whoever was on the streets including gang members, homeless people, etc just whoever was around and they still do when you go to places like Venice and there still is a slight punk scene
and you do have a decent sociological point but then why does the music stress the uniqueness so much? you can't sit there and bash the rest of society for conforming and then be a clone of all of your friends and the hardcore scene in general has far less diversity than the punk scene ever did
Quote (Mattd90 @ Mar 31 2011 06:09am)
By brotherly I meant when you're in a scene with friends or people you relatively know from seeing them at shows... we get violent on each other to a degree. We all get hit in the face or w/e, but all it takes is a handshake at the end of the night and all is good. Its the pricks that start fights the second they get hit that makes everyone assume the REAL hardcore kids are all violent douche bags.
ya that's true
that's why in Cali big shows tend to have shitty pits because no matter what as soon as a pit starts a fight starts because there are too many different cliques there
local shows are more fun because the pits are better but you also have less people so you have 10-20 people doing a good pit instead of 50-60 at a big show
from what I hear the east coast has better pits at big shows because people understand that it's just a pit more, on the West coast especially in LA we have too many gang members and shit packing knives into shows for people to feel comfortable just going all out in a pit because people are idiots and always make something out of nothing