I actually really like this game, love the elder scrolls series, it's cool to see an open world version of the game.
I'm having much fun playing the beta so far.

Reading some of the reviews on other sites and even this forum, are we even playing the same game? Gamers these days are way too hard to impress it seems..

Yes alot of people have a different opinion on the game so far, me included

In my opinion the game is very slow , the graphics aren't good and the multiplayer aspect of the game isn't really existing (esp. when it comes down to questing together the game is really dissapointing)

It depends on what you expect or what you're looking for I think.

For me it's also looking pretty good. I like the feel of the combat, the nicely finished UI, game seems deep, some nice ideas, and world PvP looks promising. It really feels like playing a single player Elder Scrolls, which I think is great that they managed to get close to that. I'm not really looking to group up with other players until endgame. As an MMO I think it's impressive that they managed to give it a different feel than all the standard WoW copies, and it has a high production value.

I'm looking at it more from the perspective of: This will be a great RPG to play on PS4. The MMO/endgame part is just a possible added bonus to me. If it turns out to suck I'll just treat it as a single player game, finish it once, and not look back.

It seems ok. Feels like a single player game though.