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Quote (Darkblue @ Jan 3 2012 09:28am)
wow...I dont know where you gather this opinion. i take it that it strikes you as selfish towards others wanting to help--such as yourself--by creating a single thread to help, but you really got it all twisted lol...so hostile out of nowhere.
Not really hostile - your thread's existence is amusing (and a little sad) more than anything. It's unsurprising that you can't see the problem though.
"Creating a single thread to help" -- because the fact that there's an
entire subforum to help isn't enough, apparently. You want to help? Go to other people's threads, read their stories, and post there. Doing it in your own highlighted thread, regardless of whether you consciously mean it or not, is essentially turning it into something that's about you.
Quote (Darkblue @ Jan 3 2012 09:28am)
to add on, ive had quite a few people PM, and really appreciated that they could ask or vent in PRIVACY to a confident.
Funny, people have been doing that to me for a long time now, and I didn't even have to make a thread for it.
Quote (Darkblue @ Jan 3 2012 09:28am)
And you are just being a jerk quite frankly.
I just call a duck a duck when I see one. Am I a jerk for doing so? Probably. Do I care? Not really.
edit: Also, LOL
Quote (Darkblue @ Jan 3 2012 09:28am)
i made a thread volunteering my help without any cost (therapy, IRL it can cost a lot of money so there goes your charge bit)
Listen to yourself. You're comparing some shitty online community advice forum with professional therapy.
This post was edited by irimi on Jan 3 2012 02:02pm