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Apr 20 2024 12:39am
I dont know where to start tbh..
Ive been dating a mulsim girl for 3 months now and i really like her but things are goings so slow since in her religion nothings happen before mariage but im not used to it 😆

But like i i said i really like her but im not sure how to show her since where im from sex is a thing after a week or two but with muslim girls it takes months even years.... Soo yeah idk if i should keep dating her without having any king of love physicaly or w.e....

Im very lost since she hardly speak my languague ( french or english )
She speak a little french but idk if i should tell her i want more than dating without touching each others 🙄
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Apr 20 2024 12:41am
Any1 else had this kind of relation and could give advises ?😆
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Apr 20 2024 06:04pm
Have you met her family?

How does the family feel about her dating someone who isn't a Muslim?

Would she marry someone who isn't a Muslim?

Would you have to convert to Islam to marry her?

Are you willing to learn Arabic to be able to talk to her and her family?

You both sound incompatible. I would be concerned that she'll end up dating someone from her own faith.
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Quote (x_h @ Apr 20 2024 08:04pm)
Have you met her family?

How does the family feel about her dating someone who isn't a Muslim?

Would she marry someone who isn't a Muslim?

Would you have to convert to Islam to marry her?

Are you willing to learn Arabic to be able to talk to her and her family?

You both sound incompatible. I would be concerned that she'll end up dating someone from her own faith.


No havent met her family shes from tunesia but live in quebec canada now and she plan to stay here so i dont think she'll end up dating someone from her faith since there is very few muslim where i live

Unless she move to a big city

As for the incompatible part is religion really make two person incompatible ?
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Quote (vaiav @ Apr 21 2024 11:56am)
No havent met her family shes from tunesia but live in quebec canada now and she plan to stay here so i dont think she'll end up dating someone from her faith since there is very few muslim where i live

Unless she move to a big city

As for the incompatible part is religion really make two person incompatible ?


Religion specifically? Maybe not. As long as she would be willing to marry you at some point and you were willing to wait until marriage to have sex.

She can for sure find someone who is Muslim to date in your area if she wants though. There are apps specifically for Muslim dating. A quick search shows that the muslim population in Quebec(province) has almost doubled in the past 10 years.

It sounds like you need to have some of these conversations with her. Stuff like is she willing to marry someone who isn't muslim, would it be important for her to have her kids raised in her faith, etc.
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Quote (vaiav @ Apr 21 2024 07:56am)
No havent met her family shes from tunesia but live in quebec canada now and she plan to stay here so i dont think she'll end up dating someone from her faith since there is very few muslim where i live

Unless she move to a big city

As for the incompatible part is religion really make two person incompatible ?


stopped reading here

seems like you're an idiot

good luck
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Apr 22 2024 12:46am
Don’t bother
Either she is going to be expelled by her family which she doesn’t want
Or you have to convert to the religin of peas which you don’t want and so have to run away from her angry father and brothers
Either way it’s going to suck having to deal with this cult and their primitive philosophy if you aren’t grown up with it. Do not bother.
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May 15 2024 02:12pm
Dump her and find someone who's willing to give up the goodies.
It's not worthy the troubles she'll put you through.
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May 17 2024 01:42am
dw my best friend krishna is on his way to help you
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Quote (vaiav @ 20 Apr 2024 02:39)
I dont know where to start tbh..
Ive been dating a mulsim girl for 3 months now and i really like her but things are goings so slow since in her religion nothings happen before mariage but im not used to it 😆

But like i i said i really like her but im not sure how to show her since where im from sex is a thing after a week or two but with muslim girls it takes months even years.... Soo yeah idk if i should keep dating her without having any king of love physicaly or w.e....

Im very lost since she hardly speak my languague ( french or english )
She speak a little french but idk if i should tell her i want more than dating without touching each others 🙄


Quote (FATLAS @ 17 May 2024 03:42)
dw my best friend krishna is on his way to help you
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Navigating cultural and religious differences in a relationship can indeed be challenging, especially when it comes to intimacy. It sounds like you genuinely care about this girl and want to respect her beliefs, which is commendable. Communication is key in any relationship, regardless of cultural or religious backgrounds. Have an open and honest conversation with her about your feelings and concerns. Expressing your affection and desire to deepen your connection emotionally without necessarily rushing physical intimacy can show her your respect for her beliefs and boundaries.

Since language might be a barrier, try to communicate as clearly and patiently as possible. Maybe you could learn a few phrases in her language to show your effort and sincerity.

Remember, building a strong emotional connection can be just as fulfilling and meaningful as physical intimacy. Take the time to understand and appreciate each other's perspectives, and see where the relationship naturally progresses. If both of you are willing to compromise and understand each other's needs, you may find a beautiful balance that enriches your relationship even further.

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Naviguer Ă  travers les diffĂ©rences culturelles et religieuses dans une relation peut ĂȘtre vraiment difficile, surtout quand il s'agit d'intimitĂ©. Il semble que tu tiennes vraiment Ă  cette fille et que tu veuilles respecter ses croyances, ce qui est admirable.

La communication est essentielle dans toute relation, peu importe les origines culturelles ou religieuses. Avoir une conversation ouverte et honnĂȘte avec elle Ă  propos de tes sentiments et de tes prĂ©occupations est important. Exprimer ton affection et ton dĂ©sir de approfondir votre connexion Ă©motionnelle sans forcĂ©ment prĂ©cipiter l'intimitĂ© physique peut lui montrer ton respect pour ses croyances et ses limites.

Comme la langue peut ĂȘtre une barriĂšre, essaie de communiquer aussi clairement et patiemment que possible. Peut-ĂȘtre pourrais-tu apprendre quelques phrases dans sa langue pour montrer tes efforts et ta sincĂ©ritĂ©.

Rappelle-toi que construire une connexion Ă©motionnelle forte peut ĂȘtre tout aussi gratifiant et significatif que l'intimitĂ© physique. Prends le temps de comprendre et d'apprĂ©cier les perspectives de chacun, et vois oĂč la relation progresse naturellement. Si vous ĂȘtes tous les deux prĂȘts Ă  compromettre et Ă  comprendre les besoins de l'autre, vous pourriez trouver un Ă©quilibre magnifique qui enrichit encore plus votre relation.
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