not lookingfor hand outs just want some good info on builds and item mods whats good n not what should i be keeping or selling and what end game shit ill neeed and what end game build i should be using im using the templar char and ive made it to lvl 29

honestly that is asking for about 6 months worth of learning

basic guideline is cap resistances and put rest in life

use Poe wiki as well as the poe trade site. poe ninja is also a solid resource and can give you direction for your build as well if you look at the builds part of that site you can compare and see whats popular etc.
as far as value of items that takes a lot of time and knowledge
your best bet is to compare to what is already listed - just remember to check your rolls when comparing, if they are high or perfect they might be worth more than the bottom listed item (also bottom listed items are often price fixing attempts and not representative of the actual value, check multiple listings if you are unsure
https://www.pathofexile.com/trade/search/Blight

okay so first of all, very cute avatar !

second, poe isnt really a game where you create your own build, at least not anymore now you: 1) google "poe --> insert current league here <-- most meta builds", 2) pick one thats tolerable to you the most, and 3) follow a guide. anything that deviates from the current meta is going to suck, the only question is how hard

Tnkies yours is adorable to my girl loves the bear stickers from fb so they grew on me lols
I'll look up builds when i get home at work rn
I'm on the us blight league i made it to 35 before work and started act4

tytyt, much appreciated !

and best this league is the summoner, its kinda gay but it works really well, even with shit gear

I strongly disagree.

The Powercreep in this game has reached a level where almost all skills are perfectly viable for endgame now. Especially in trade leagues.

3 examples:

Winters Orb, I never tried the original unnerfed version because it seemed too op.

Tried it now to see if all the whining about the rebalance was justified and what do you know it absolutely shreds.

Cyclone, played the skill since it existed and it was totally fine through all the changes, even though every single change was met with total outrage.
3.7 Unarmed version still good even without the op radius aoe interaction. 3.8 Still a great skill.

Ice Trap, noone seems to play it but the damage + build in aoe overlap is ridiculous while providing the freeze safety + shatter explosion clearspeed and the prestacking for bosses.

I agree that certain skills can be bad for different league mechanics, but when you are new to the game you should just try out different skill gems which fit your character, look up the support gems that are best for them & see if you like how the skill plays. If you found a skill you like check which ascendancy is best for it and how to scale the damage.

GGG is obviously forcing a meta now with each patch but it is in no way mandatory.

100% this.

Almost every skill can reach endgame. Some just do it faster & easier than others.

heres the problem with this. the people who agree with me wont comment because theres no need, but people who dont agree will comment. then a noob might read your comment and think he can play whatever he wants thats the same reason that makes a normal porn video have 85~90% like ratio, while some furry anime tentacle shit will have 100%. because normal people dont even click the video in the first place so they cant dislike it

i mean i believe what you said, that you managed to clear the entire game with non meta skills etc. but it just doesnt work for 95% players, meaning that 95% of whoever listens to you is gonna have a bad time. i know you mean well and i have nothing against you, but it just doesnt work for the majority of people

snyft thinking he is normal... hahahahahahhahahaa