can anyone tell me a list of like general gear for a smiteR ?

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Main equipment:
Helm: Crown of Ages unid
Armor: Enigma Archon Plate +775 Defense - Perfect
Weapon: Grief Berserker Axe 40/370-399/20-25
Shield: Exile Vortex Shield - Eth Bugged - 45/260 EDef & 13-15 Defiance
Amulet: Highlord's Wrath
Ring 1: Bul-Kathos' Wedding Band 5% ll
Ring 2: Ravenfrost - 20 Dex & 250 AR - Perfect
Belt: Verdungo's Hearty Cord 15% DR & +40 Vit
Gloves: Dracul's Grasp - 10% ll & 15 Str
Boots: Gore Rider - 200% ED - Perfect

Switch:
Weapon: Call to Arms Flail - Perfect 6 BO
Shield: Spirit Sacred Targe - 45 Res All - 35% FCR/89-111 Mana/3-8 MA

Inventory:
Hellfire Torch: Paladin Hellfire 17-19 res 17-19 stats
Charms: 9x Paladin Combat Skills w/ 10-20 Life GC