mine says server wont connect anyone know if its just me or is it everyone? i dont see whyd itd be just me but i wanna check haha

Are you getting a message at the character screen saying "your connection is temporarily restricted from this realm"?

yes

You have what is commonly referred to as "Realm Down". Then that means you have joined over 20 games in 1 hour

Here is a guide on how to bypass that http://forums.d2jsp.org/topic.php?t=39461179&f=21

Note this only works if you have a dynamic IP address, if you have a static then you will just have to wait it out

thanks for the help bro

ya it doesnt help ill just have to wait it out and ya i was mfing like a champ and got banned..... but o well ill just wait haha thanks tho

Well make sure you reset your router once you have released your IP then renew it when the router is back up and running