Right now i want to do bbq smoked pulled pork sandwiches
smoked cheddar and beacon mac and cheese
maybe beans but after that i draw a blank

any idea's to help me out

If you graduated, you shouldn't be doing the cooking.
Let others cook/prepare food for you or take you out.

Either make things that are easy to prepare, or something that will keep your guests entertained while you are cooking it.

Easily prepared are any pasta, salads (can include pasta as well), homemade pizzas.. the list can go on and on really.
Example of entertainment factor would be skewered meat, barbecue or something like that.

i want to cook though lol
my family and friends really never experence my passion for cooking before and i think my graduation party with everyone there is a good way to show it off



Like i just need to think of stuff that i could prep the day before and put in the oven the day off and get everything cooked before the party starts
only thing that i really want to put some planning into is the pulled pork sandwiches, need to think of the rub and what kind of bbq sauce i want

Sliders are excellent, they are nice appetizers and are really pretty. Make sure to have a pick to poke it through.
Burger, a little piece of lettuce and a pickle.