“Mosting” is Essentially the same thing as “ghosting” but on steroids. Where as “ghosting” can be disappointing, confusing and a little hurtful, bouncing back after someone has ghosted you kind of makes you look at the person who ghosted differently and you realize how childish and wack that person is.
“Mosting” is on a whole new level because it’s pretty much love bombing someone with the motivation of making this person feel and believe that there’s a genuine connection right before that person takes flight. There’s no devaluation, never mind an explanation or closure, just when you physically and emotionally build a connection with someone, that person has taken flight
Why this sort of behavior has become a thing now, who’s to say. It seems like men are doing it for the end goal of getting sex, which in my opinion is fucking lame because of the amount of time and energy one has to invest in this shit head behavior. It could be done to feed an individuals ego and to validate themselves, they like having people chase them, which in my personal opinion causes discomfort in your own life not to mention the other people involved. Or some people just can’t not help but to self sabotage.
Just look for the signs I suppose, if you feel like someone is laying things on too thick and too fast, listen to their actions first rather than their words.
This post was edited by Varoma on Mar 16 2023 04:12am