Sorry to hear about your Dad Jake

I hope he's doing okay.
As far as your match with JORDY, this goes for everyone. If a match goes past the pending period and I don't see a post about dodge or a one day extension request the match will be nulled/24hr penalty.
NO EXCEPTIONS.Here are the rules from page 1 regarding dodge:
The Dodge Rule/Inactivity:*The challenger must PM the person defending for the "Dodge Rule" to be in affect. Do not try to go around this for if you need to call Dodge it will not be in affect since the challenged was never informed via PM.*
-After a challenge has been posted, it will stay open on the forum for 3 days. If the defending user does not accept the challenge, or the match does not take place within 3 days despite the curcimstances of the initial post, the challenger will automatically win the match via "Dodge Rule". For those duels lasting longer than 4 days, the duel will be "Nullified" due to "Delay of Ladder". Players inactive for 10 days or more will be dropped to the Bottom of the Ladder as MIA. -Defender can also call Dodge not just the challenger.
So from now on if a match doesn't get done within 3days and someone calls dodge that call will stand. If both players are communicating and are going to use the 4th day to get the duel done that's fine, but if the duel isn't done after the forth day and there is no dodge call or request for a one day extension the match will be nulled/24hr.
NO EXCEPTIONS. We admins sometimes have to act as refs. We have to make calls, sometimes the call wont be agreed on. But decisions have to be made regardless. If a call in the future is made, I would like everyone to except and respect the call and move on. I understand it might not always seem fair. I make the best decision I can with the information I am given at the time. Getting a dodge or null isn't the end of the bash for whoever is involved as long as you don't get 3 dodge/null's in a row.
GL everyone and have fun