If anything, 1.5JZ is the way to go (1JZ head, 2JZ block)
Andy has the right idea though, head = power, block = reliability
So..
build the bottom end (rods, pistons)
then head mods (springs, retainers, porting, oversized valves) <- you can raise your rev limiter if you do this, so more time in boost.
I haven't used anything but ARP headstuds so I'm biased towards them, but they're well known for a reason.
As for turbo, the GT30R sounds like a good choice for you, it can flow up to right around your power goals.
Head gasket wise, you're going to need to do a bit of research. Most after market companies make multiple head gaskets for the same motor with different crush thickness to allow you to "fine tune" the compression ratio of the motor.