Ended up splitting, Got the moog control arms and one tie rod set (inner/outer) from rockauto, shipping was only about $12 so very reasonable, Amazon would have cost me more (being in WA) due to tax
Got the other tie rod set on amazon open box (prime warehouse) so the set was $20 with the outer end being the professional series (all the tie rods will be delco)
Decided to order FCS struts, because both were open box and I got one for $12 and one for $20 (heavy cosmetic damage, both prime) if they work well, it was cheap, if not I'm only out some labor as I can return them VIA prime as defective...
Now, for the time to do it all