Trying to simpify this as possible as it can get because i have the exact same thoughts.
Try to farm, zone if you can, achieve map awarness, positioning and push. Push like hell, any open oportunity for you to push must be taken, take towers, push, back and forth, team fights kinda irrelevant, u need your team to take pressure in lanes, force the opponent to chase but not to take kills,
Maybe it works, maybe it doesnt