thanks foe the positive support, i dont get alot of that!

im just telling u the truth, you have to live your lives the way you want to live it, otherwise, whats the point in living? Let the others worry and say what they want, as long as u 2 are happy, they will either put up with it or shut up, either way, you are the main person tobe happy

we are tryin to work thing out to beable to do that, wats hurtin us the most is the fact that i live with my mom and she wont let him come over and i am not allowed where he is stayin now cuz of his baby momma, nd right now niether one of us can drive...... so we r stuck n a really hard spot!!! i believe that we can work past this all, jus hopin he does too.....

This post was edited by MissThang on May 7 2009 06:28pm

lol ok so let me understand this, he is staying with his ex? or am i totally gone bonkers and not understanding the baby mamma thing again

yes right now he lives with his best friend and his baby momma nd lil girl.... they live together cuz neither one of them hav ne other place to go, nd cant afford their own place.... nd he dont want her bouncin from place to place with there kid, so i do understand that, his kid comes 1st, i will never stand in the way of his lil girl! mine nd his plans r for us to get a place, but hell we have so many other bills that got to get paid b4 that can happen...... i jus lost my job to top the cake off!!!
so we hav agreed that we will take the time need to each get our own shit stright, so that way we will beable to make a life together nd not have to deal wit the shit we do now......

thats completely understandable, and a good choice

we text each other all day long nd c each other when we can!!!!
its really hard for me, but i am dealin with it day by day!

how old are u guys if i may ask

he'll be 24 in 11 days and i will b 23 in 13 days

at your age personally i wouldn't let my mother or anyone else tell me what to do. I amnot saying that to cause trouble, but u need to make her understand that you have to live your own life, you need to make the mistakes in order to learn from them, she has her life to live and thats how she possibly learned things, by doing it and then understanding why. Nothing Ventured nothing gained right. Experience determines everything