Quote (BmA_BeMyAngel @ Nov 19 2016 05:45pm)
Apathy and Grief.
The feelings of apathy, grief, depression, sorrow, self-pity, the blues, hopelessness, and helplessness
come from the inner program of “I can’t.” Their purpose is to elicit sympathy, to win back, to gain
support, to make others sorry, and to summon help. What is the effect of these feelings on another
person? Although there may be an initial attempt to help, eventually this is replaced by pity and finally
avoidance. Why avoidance? The avoidance is because of the huge energy demand that we are making on
the other person. It is an attempt to drain them by throwing ourselves on their doorstep. This results in
the common saying, which sounds hard-hearted but is unfortunately so often true: “When you laugh,
the world laughs with you; but when you cry, you cry alone.”
Constant grief will drive others away. They begin to resent it unless they are in a very high place
themselves and capable of effortless compassion. Chronic grief brings premature aging, a tiredness and
weariness about the person, and it can only be overcome when we have the courage to allow it to come
up under appropriate conditions and have the willingness to surrender to it and let it go.
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As a bi guy, I have received many blow jobs from men and women. And from my many diverse experiences, men consistently give better head than girls do.
I found the main difference, and what seems to be the best "secret" to a great blow job, is that the giver really has to LOVE LOVE LOVE the cock. A lot of girls give blow jobs because men like them. They view it as a giving pleasure to the man. But with guys, a lot of them love the act, and love the cock. All of the sudden, the bj isn't just about the guy receiving it. The guy giving it is just as "into" it. Of course I could also point to the fact that guys know what guys like better than girls, but that can be learned. What seems to be most consistent with the better blow jobs is love of the cock.
Edit: Also, just to be clear, I never had any pre-conceived notions about who would be better at it. My first blowjobs were all from women back in the day and having never thought of getting blown by a guy, I already started forming the opinion that the majority of women didn't give good head.
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