Quote (FrozenWater @ 5 Oct 2014 05:09)
that was cool, thanks

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I have a couple problems with my personality that have increased in severity, and I can't denounce them as i can almost always back them up with logic.
I need to know how to overcome them and become a more peaceful, generous human being.
Two destructive traits are the following:
When I feel I have been wronged, I seek revenge. I feel comfort in knowing that once ive sought and obtained revenge, it's like compensation.
Judging others. I don't necessarily act out on thes judgements but I auto-assume they host the same convictions and judge me back (I also harshly judge myself)
I'll probably get in trouble for posting in here but I'd like to try to help just a bit,
when someone wrongs you they are actually hurting themselves in the eyes of your God. correct..yes
If you react in the same not only have they first done the wrong to you but they have tempted you to lower yourself to their level...so bang they get a double wrong on you
with judging, even though I've lost my faith, remember when asked Jesus said the most important commandment besides loving God first and foremost, is loving your brother as you would yourself,and if you do this then you have all the commandments you really need. I know I've paraphrased, but that's still how I try to live. I was just keeping it simple and direct. It sucks to feel judged..so in turn don't judge.
And judging yourself harshly is easy to do, the best way to stop is to find some new positive people to be around, maybe a church group, some other club that interests you. but something fun where you'll get positive feed back
I hope i've helped a bit, and againI'm sorry if I've stuck my nose where i shouldn't.