so me and my girlfriend are 17 and about to be 18
i really think this girl is the one i want to spend the rest of my life with but i have some problems..

she is 100% a christian but she
- was bisexual a couple years ago and said she still has tiny feelings towards girls
- smokes weed ( she says she only does it like once or twice a year)

i really dont like those things, but i still love this girl with all my heart!
what should i do

Did God tell you "She is to be your wife?"

Regardless of your concerns, I wouldn't suggest rushing into marriage until you are certain of who it is you are committing to for the rest of your life. That being said, you will never find someone who is without sin. Learn to love others and pray for them and God will show you the way.

- was bisexual a couple years ago and said she still has tiny feelings towards girls
- smokes weed ( she says she only does it like once or twice a year)

Out of all the sins that are forgiven by Jesus, even the ones committed by Christians themselves, I'd think that these would be fairly minor in comparison. Especially considering the "degrees"

If she is pretty much an angel otherwise, she is far ahead of the curve.


a question I always ask is "Compared to the norm?"

outta be in the 90th percentile in terms of living by God's law imo if those are the only things she can be pinned on.

This post was edited by RUSSiABANK on Mar 21 2012 06:44pm

wow i can;t believe i never though of it that way, i probably have things like that she doesnt
like and im judging her for her wrong doings when i have so many i can be accused of..

thanks a LOT for the help guys

--any more input is helpful too

personally, i'd recommend focusing on the future before you get married. finish college, make sure you have a job that can support a family. that will give you another 4ish years in the relationship and either help you bond or convince one of you that you're not meant to be

Start going to a youth or young adults group...

Focus on a partnership relationship with God, (With the LORD as the head of your relationship) Spend time praying together & reading the word.

Statistics, research on wiki and u'll see

Marriage these days is not a necesity, it is a miracle.

Why dont you post this in the love line sub forum ? I dont see anything related to christian fellowship..