Obviously forgiveness is a crucal part of Christianity, but this is intense.

I slept with another women while we were dating many many years ago. I still don't think she has forgiven me for that.
Can I leverage this into her forgiving me somehow?

No. Leveraging your past follies into a current situation would be simply toxic to your relationship.

Forgiveness is what you must do.

No, you need to allow yourself to forgive yourself and her, but you need to talk to her about it and that cant happen again.

You cannot cheat on your wife, and she cannot cheat on you, it's a unfaithful marriage if you continue. Will just make the marriage worse, You need to sit down and talk to her and forgive each other and talk it out. good luck

god bless

This post was edited by HighschoolTurd on Oct 5 2011 06:00pm

A marriage based on lies does not last.

forgiveness will set you free.

both of you.

and if there really is too much of a trust issue, perhaps the relationship won't work out.

There is never an excuse for a divorce.

Reconcile. Only thing you can do.

No divorce, I meant seperation (still married though)

Time may help them reconcile

back hand her

This post was edited by Avenger987 on Oct 6 2011 03:27pm