is my dad being greedy? A little bit but probably in his mind he thinks its whats best for you

should i tell him what i want to do ? deffinatly

should i leave my home in south dekota to come back to where i was born and raised? if you are really not happy there i would discuss it with ur dad and ur brother to see if you can arrange something

would it be wrong of me to move in with my brother instead of living with my dad? No as long as you confront ur dad and ur brother is completley fine with it.

i just feel that i have betrayed them by moving away from them

im just leaving in the morning from a month viset with all of them and it gets harder and harder to leave every time

i think my dad would be hurt if i was to tell him

i also would feel bad about puting the wieght of raising a kid when hes only 22

but i know he wants me to do it

he wants me to move in but i think i would only sink him

im just so confused

if your brother is stable and u get along well it should be fine. Just try to be a good kid so its not a hassel for him like dont dog drugs drink break the law etc... and if you could do a little house hold work so it would even take a little stress of him if you came

Well, I think you need to sit down with your dad and have a serious convo with him about what you want. If your brother has no problem with you living with him and he is able to somewhat care for you, you need to let your dad know that. Hopefully he will see where your coming from. And let him know you can go visit him on summer/holiday breaks. Its tough to leave where you grew up but your dad is definitely doing what he thinks is right for you, he is probably just a little uncomfortable with it because your your brothers pasts.

I hope this helps, but you just need to have a talk with your dad about the positives and negatives.

look your mom and brothers all have drug problems or had

you might love them but they're still not the kind of people you should be hanging around. and it's not just them. what sort of people do you think meth addicts and ex-convicts hang out with?

the kind of people your dad doesn't want you to be near.

if your family loves you as much as you love them, have them come visit you since they're all older than you.