Quote (lingaojing @ Apr 10 2010 08:48pm)
So where do you guys think the line between rebuking your friends and judging your friends? i've been having some trouble with this lately and it's with some of my friends that are new believers and i understand it is difficult for them as they are new believers but if they haven't read if for themselves i feel like it's up to me to share it with them what they're doing is wrong and a lot of the time they blow me off and say that i'm just judging them
Use scripture to reveal it to them, dont just be like "oh, lust is bad." (example) show them where it says "flee from youthful lust." and where it says to keep your eyes clean
Things of that nature will hit harder than you telling them what is right and wrong, because we cant see through the eyes of God - but we have his word.