Quote (HighschoolTurd @ Nov 9 2011 08:36pm)
You cannot judge me, and tell me that because of me commiting sexual sin doesn't relate to me not talking to girls. I don't feel "alpha" when I am with girls, that is not true at all, I simply feel really nervous around them, and FOR ME, (and others I know). When I am with girls, I put them on the pedostool before me (ALWAYS) so you saying that I feel alpha is absolutely not true at all.
I think you should have a look here:
Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body.
(1 Corinthians 6:18)
Sexual sin is against his own body, that means spiritual and physically and emotionally, I believe 100% that because of my sexual sin I have been doing in the past , is my result for not having a relationship with a girl and my social problems outside of the internet. That is something I have to live for with the rest of my life, unless I repent and stop now (Which I am doing my best) so I don't really need you to make assumptions about me either saying "Good luck in your efforts", when I know god is in my heart all the time, wherever I go, and whatever I should live as he is next to me standing watching over me.
I disagree with your natural for us to be tempted, when I became a born again christian, my views on that completely changed and my perspective on life, therefore the sexual sin was very minimal, now not only me, but others, have problems with internet/girls at school/ people who they hang out, (Put women down all the time) and makes you feel like the girls are the b-word, that's really how the mainstream music media portrays womens nowadays, it's sickening, and I stay and tread FAR FROM IT.
It's natural in a sense (your attractive to females) but it's not NATURAL To commit (SEXUAL) sin... why don't you understand that?
@ Bold I am not judging you, I am saying, that it's probable ( not impossible ) that the problems are not due to your sexual sins. You may disagree, but others did sin like yourself, and are still able to have a healthy relationship with a woman. That's what I meant by correlation does not imply causation. You ask me to not assume things, but do so yourself, hypocrite.
I wasn't assuming at all you've admit yourself that you did sin, but you wish to better yourself, and become closer to god, why would I not wish you luck ?
It's irrelevant that god is with you at all time, you have free will, ultimately you will make the choices, he can only try to support you with his love, and hope you love him back just as he does.
I also never said it was natural to commit sexual sin ( another assumption I guess ? )
I said that it was natural that you were tempted.
This is like a person which is homosexual, but does not engage in homosexual acts.
It is totally different, one acted upon his urges, one does not.
Also about the "alpha" thing it was more directed towards other animals, humans are much more complex and the criteria for pairing are way more than a little boost of manliness via hormones.
This post was edited by evilnemesis on Nov 9 2011 07:10pm