Quote (Vio @ 15 Jun 2011 09:13)
It's certainly not because of some trauma. I was never attracted to men, and have always been attracted to women.
Anyway, I don't even think it's a sin. Homosexuality is something that's completely natural; it has been observed in a big list of species. That, and the statistics about homosexuality, show that it is a natural thing, and I don't see why God would have a problem with this.
One fallacy is to compare humans to other animals. Are you saying that man is no better than a wild animal, whom has no control over their carnal instincts? Don't belittle your situation by using such a comparison, it does not serve you well. This same argument can be made for the most obscene of offenses (murder, rape, pedophilia, incest, segregation, violence, etc), so best not to tread down that path.
We are all imperfect, we all sin, and have problems in our lives that we struggle with. For some people, maybe it's alcohol, drugs, porn, sex, kleptomania, etc etc. We all have something that we cannot conquer by ourselves, and will always be there, waiting to sneak back into our lives the second we let our guards down.