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Oct 6 2011 07:34pm
Quote (Darkblue @ Oct 6 2011 11:35am)
No divorce, I meant seperation (still married though)

Time may help them reconcile


Separation is never a good choice either.

You just have to work it out.
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Oct 7 2011 10:42am
Quote (flipypy @ Oct 6 2011 09:34pm)
Separation is never a good choice either.

You just have to work it out.


Said like someone who has never been married or had a meaningful romantic relationship.
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Oct 7 2011 11:46pm
Quote (flipypy @ Oct 6 2011 10:34pm)
Separation is never a good choice either.

You just have to work it out.


wow, thats kind of silly. so this wife kissing another man is forgiveable. then why not let yourself be taken away by temptation and sleep with another women?

just gonna have to work it out anyways and be forgiven?
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Oct 8 2011 08:01pm
Quote (et3rnal @ Oct 5 2011 04:46pm)
Obviously forgiveness is a crucal part of Christianity, but this is intense.

I slept with another women while we were dating many many years ago. I still don't think she has forgiven me for that.
Can I leverage this into her forgiving me somehow?


You have to ask yourself this, could you honestly forgive her? After all is said in done, in your heart would you honestly feel as if nothing happened? I can guarantee when you slept with another her heart was crushed. If my fiance cheated on me i don't think i could possibly recover. Whatever you do, dot prolong the situation or it will only get worse.
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Oct 8 2011 09:21pm
You should prolly grab the biggest cross in your house and go slam it on your wifes boyfriends face.imo.. ^_^
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Oct 8 2011 10:47pm
Wow! I came out of the church, the to THE LOSS OF THE FIRST LOVE and now to this hmmmm
Forgiveness is crucial yes but i don't believe one can forgive if one has not repented...All this happens deep in the heart(the spirit mind) and only The living God can help u through this- take courage peace friend

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