Quote (Blind[zF)
,Sep 22 2010 02:50pm]Honestly, and please don't get upset here, but I feel your phone dropping in the toilet was a sign to stop contacting her. 11 days straight of messaging her and her not responding, especially after she says something along the lines "it would take a while for her to see me as just a friend", is borderline obsessive on your part.
I'd like to talk to you a bit more about this, but privately, so I can get a better understanding of this. But as of this point I would say leave the girl alone for a little bit and do exactly as you said, "Maybe I just need to find myself again, I'm not sure."
Maybe the breakup with her was so that you can focus on you and the Lord and become one again with just Him.
Either way, you'll be in my prayers. God Bless.
I agree with this. I had a similar situation with a girl. We dated for nearly 2 years, and were both believers, and it just wasn't working out. We were arguing towards the end, and were doing things we shouldn't have done. We decided to break it off, and for a while it was killing me..i always wanted to talk to her, but i didn't. I gave her space and time, and i used my time to grow closer with the Lord. Anyways, after about 3 months she txt'd me one day, and we hung out a couple of days later, and next thing you know we're dating, and still are to this day.
My point is, let her go, if she comes back its meant to be. Just trust that no matter what the Lord will give you what you need.