So I started talking to this dude in my class the other day because he asked to borrow some paper, and we talked a little bit today too.

But, when class was over I was putting my stuff into my bookbag and he asked me what I was going to do today, and I said probly chill at home and play MW3.

Then he said oh well we should hang out today cause we live close to eachother, and the whole way walking to our cars it was awkward.

He asked me to go to 7-11 with him to buy him some cigarettes because he's only 17 so even though I didn't feel right with that I still did.

After I bought him a pack he kept talking to me and said, again, that we should hang out and then gave me his phone number to hit him up.


In the end, I really don't want to chill with this guy because he isn't the normal type of person I would go out of my way to be friends with and he smokes cigarettes/weed, but it's hard because I try to be cool and friendly with everyone and I couldn't find it in myself to say anything.. mehhh

You can still be friendly to him without having to "hang-out". I would steer clear from buying him stuff though. You can wind up in a lot of trouble for that.

Normally that's the case, but he seems very clingy and asked me repeatedly to hang out, and as I said it's tough to just say no

and, do you mean in trouble as in he might take advantage of it? or, like with the law

This post was edited by SkaDiablo on Nov 10 2011 03:34pm

Just tell him that you feel uncomfortable hanging out with him because he smokes. The last thing you need is him pressuring you to smoke with him.

As to your question, both. If he views you as a person that can get what he needs, he will ask you every time. You can also get into trouble with the law because you are buying age restricted products for a minor.

This is your best bet.

How is this related to Christianity?

In any event, just be humble and ignore the guy, that's what I do. I got a friend @ the gym who always after we workout, he goes outside and smokes.. lol I always just get in my car and leave, (im kinda rude) but he is rude for smoking..


If you're a christian, pray about it, got o church and ask god what you should do also.
God bless, hope he understands

Not a bad thing to go to Christians for advice or counsel. Especially moral issues as such.

Not necessarily related to christianity.. but I am a pentecostal and I figured this out of any of the other forums would be the place to ask to get the right advice that I was looking for
I went to his house for like 45 minutes before my night class and I was pretty uncomfortable, his brother came in saying I want to get drunk tonight! and then when I was leaving the kid said we should hang out for longer some other time, and we can "smoke some herbs".. I just told him that I'm not into that stuff etc.

But yeah I'm going to try and politely ignore him and see if he gets the picture.. and I also definitely need to pray about it

It's fine, this subforum is good for real advice.

that's awesome though for you saying "im notinto that stuff" I used to hang out with some friends back in the day they used to smoke weed and they always would peer pressure me/etc I just have to keep saying no, just make sure to always so no even if they get liek 2-3 friends to help peer pressure you, i've been there.

Once our baseball team had a game at another city, so I hitched a ride with some other of my baseball buddies, and they chewed tobacco, which is very Gross. But they kept peer pressuring me while I was in the car to get to "try" some I kept telling them "No" , then they kept calling me names (jokingly) but still I could have let go and lost it and started the addiction, I believe god was with me telling me to keep saying No.

God works in mysteriously ways baby.

Now is your chance to share the love of Christ