Normally never see myself come here for any reason. But I think there's a time where you can say forget your beliefs and such.

My dad is in the hospital, about to die.

He had a sever stroke that left him brain dead, and there's no signs of improvement

And the only thing I hope he did was make the right choice in his life. I will eventually see the light in time. I just hope he did before it's to late.

Please pray he did... make the right choice that is.

Thank you

There is no "right" and "wrong".

Life is an endless cycle.

He will always be OK.

Don't stress yourself out.

I'm so sorry for your father. Whether it be through religion or philosophy, we all seek some form of truth in life. There are many things within this life which cannot be explained, and one of those things is life after death. Your father may live beyond this life, or he may simply pass from this world altogether; however, know that he will always be with you, both in memory and in heart. No one can take that from you. You are the living personification of his life's journey. Just as you were part of him, he will always be a part of you. There is some comfort to be found in that, I think.



This post was edited by Epion on May 8 2010 11:19pm

You may confort him in his final moments by being close.
And I pray that you not be sad and may you grow a stronger person.
As for your father he does not need your worry about his lifes accomplishments.
It was his life, his choices so respect and honour them.

Right and wrong are just the delusions of the mind that each of us makes up.
There is a bigger plan here at work brother let life go, and just live in the moment of now.

Easier said then done "MaryJ" If you told some1 your beloved Father or Mother was dying , literally.. Would you like them to say " Dont stress yourself out"?
Your a dumbass seriously

Pray persistently

Lies.

no im fine thx