Start with Java or C#. Save the C++ for later. Just do it and one day you'll understand why.

C# for .NET or Java for everything else.

Java/C# are very similar so if you learn the concepts of object-oriented programming you'll easily be able to pick up the other language.

I would say Javascript NOT java would be the best language you can teach yourself.

Javascript is in about everything today, and of course C# is always good. However if your like me, im learning languages like CoCo's because I am Mobile App Developer.

OR maybe even start with web development like wordpress or joomla stuff?